When we develop an intimate crush on a person, we see only fragments of who they are. The gaps we fill in with our minds of who we want them to be. This can be a two way street in the imagination, both parties seeking an ideal partner on a crossroads of desire and expectation. Any small sign that indicates the person fulfils one or more aspects of our mental criteria is enough for us to label him/her as the one. The rest of our wish list we project onto them. When we see someone standing at a point where we want to reach, be it spiritual, physical or emotional, we create little fantasies in our head and these seeds grow in our psyche, creating a role for the desired person in a huge act of reductionism.

Ultimately any relationship based on this premise is doomed. If we are invested in believing the fabricated story we have created for someone, parting ways can be like tearing strips of fiction from our skin. The pages of your combined story comes undone as you realise that he/she is a totally different person to the one in your head. You are complete strangers in your own love story.

Perhaps, at the outset if we pay attention to people and really listen to them, rather than how we choose to interpret them, we would feel their true essence. After all it is the initial feeling that attracts us to the person, if we rush in with needs and expectations we place a huge weight upon the other. Expecting someone to fulfil a role you place on them is a form of emotional blackmail. If they have low self-esteem or other emotional issues, they feel love is only shown when they meet the role, or conditions placed upon them.

When we see a person for who they are, accepting their light and shade, we can see them blossom in front of us. We grow in the light of acceptance. The natural characteristics of a person come to the fore and we realise that the Universe is truly the best author of our lives.

~ Collette OMahony

December 2014

Dear friends and Readers,

I have just had the third book of my trilogy ‘The Rainbow Lights’ published on Amazon. It will be available on iBookstore, Nook, Lulu and Kobo over the coming days.

This third instalment of the  trilogy is titled ‘The Globe of Love’. It follows the feminine aspect of a Globe of love & light through several human incarnations as it experiences separation from the masculine aspect of the Globe.

A Globe of love & light is the primordial energy of masculine & feminine energy. It is the purity of balance between these energies prior to their entrance into separate body forms on earth. Love relates to Feminine energy, Light relates to masculine energy. As the mind develops in each counterpart energy, they begin to drift apart seeking new experiences with other opposite bodies of energy. However, the evolution of consciousness ensures that the original pairing of masculine & feminine energy would always find their way back to the perfect fit of their twin energy. The human form allows each aspect of the globe to experience life in a three dimensional sphere as man and woman. By immersing themselves in their physical world and identifying with their physical gender, they come in contact with several other globes (souls) and feel the emotional waves that move through their being.

The Globe of Love follows both the human and spirit aspects of the feminine’s journey as her vibration lowers into separation consciousness, and her subsequent journey through the Rainbow Lights (Cosmic Mind) to remember her true essence as Love.

A person’s history is the culmination of egoic thought. It is the ego’s identity. A low vibration in the feeling body manifests as thought. Sustained thought becomes egoic self. Ego dictates lifestyle, material wealth, fashion and manipulates emotion to create a separate world. The social history of a soul entity eventually becomes too cumbersome to carry. It is at this point that the egoic loop between thought and feeling begins to unravel. On the outer level it may appear as though the person is having a personal crisis. The fact is that the feeling body can no longer support the dysfunctional ego and seeks a way out from under its oppression.

Once an intention is set to align with the Universe, events are orchestrated to bring feeling energy lost in ego back to unity consciousness. Thoughts are like a cloud dust arising from a stampede, temporarily impairing vision. When the dust settles everything becomes clear again.

Low vibratory energy clings to thought, believing that if it could just get through a difficult situation, the future will hold the answer to its dreams. The wishful future is ‘now’ dispersed through a cloud of dust. It is egoic resistance to accepting what is. The low vibratory energy feeding ego coils up in knots when the solution is rather simple… Feel the pain to return to Love. You cannot see who you truly are until the dust of thought settles.

The world cannot exist without thought.

Thought cannot exist without feeling.

Feeling is the heart of the world.

The world one experiences is governed primarily by feeling and secondly by the thought it attracts. If the world seems unjust and dysfunctional it is a reflection of inner feeling. No amount of thinking so called good thoughts can change that. If you do not face up to how you feel, the ‘world’ your vibration attracts, will continue to create circumstances to release low vibratory energy. Identifying with the mental self, induced from pain, creates a victim mentality. The world exists as a result of your feeling and thought. If your feeling is numb then thought has taken over and the imbalance creates the victim mentality. Reality is falsely perceived through a sleeping consciousness.

The current world you experience has no future or past, only a present, and that present is created primarily by the state of consciousness in the current of now.

~ Collette O’Mahony

Men and women who we find attractive often have qualities we wish to emulate. They serve as catalysts for our under developed counterpart energy (masculine or feminine) to expand and grow. A man may find he is drawn to a nurturing, expressive woman who encourages his inner feminine to emote & express his feelings. A woman may find she is attracted by a wise and sensual man who encourages her inner masculine to channel wisdom and embrace her sexuality. It is the quality we admire in others that indicates the part of us that requires expansion and growth.

Each ascending level within us attracts its identical energy frequency that is required for soul expansion. Along the way we manifest reflections of both our empowered and disempowered consciousness. We must be able to continually step up the frequencies in our physical body and hold fast to our intention to align with unity consciousness.
We learn how to increase our capacity to extend love, and also to receive love. We develop our ability to hold a loving space for others when their energy dips into the lower chakras causing desire and expectation. Through compassion and honesty we encourage our counterpart energy to grow and expand to its full potential. Unity consciousness asks us to hold a space for each other as we make the difficult transition from human being to light being. We do not judge another soul when it shows its shadow side, rather we hold firm in our truth knowing it serves the other to raise their energy level.
Soul communion comes from honest communication between two souls. It is a willingness to put soul maturity as a priority. Bringing balance to our inner masculine & feminine energies, and the physical union of counterparts, stirs up a hot house of emotions. It highlights the most blatant expressions of polarity within our psyche. Intention for unity helps to navigate the old conditioned patterns of mind games, projection and avoidance. The unity of masculine & feminine, within the soul, plays out in duality consciousness between man & woman. Life in the physical realm is designed as a meeting and merging of opposite and complementary expressions of energy. We have chosen this human design as a way of knowing ourselves, so that we may return to an awareness of unity in which we love without condition.

~ Collette O’Mahony

Union between our inner feminine and inner masculine creates a harmony which endures beyond external circumstances. This inner balance is not a fantasy state where we stop engaging in, and nourishing external physical relationships. Rather we bring our inner fulfilment to a relationship. We no longer rely on others for our wholeness. We share this with them and do not place ownership on them. All souls require freedom to grow and be.

Mind is the formless energetic level of masculine energy. Spirit is the formless energetic level of feminine energy. On the super conscious level, masculine is Light and feminine is Love.

When imbalanced, one side will dominate our personality and the other side remains underdeveloped in our psyche. This results from our identification with the human form. As we become aware of our need to balance our twin energies, the under developed side will show up as lovers in our day & night time dreams, and as a result our longings increase. Certain individuals you come in contact with remind you of your under-developed side or inner lover. This under developed side shines through when another person reflects it. When this happens, you feel exhilarated, because it reminds you of your original love. The human vessel is still adapting to channeling high radiant love and it is a challenge to raise it beyond the lower chakras. It is frustrating when love is objectified and there is a need for the physical outer lover to complete us. Our intention to grow as conscious beings is paramount in helping us to discern those who serve as messengers for the inner twin consciousness, from the true twin consciousness in human form. We cannot fully embrace our inner lover or undeveloped side in the psyche until we stop projecting illusion and fantasy onto the outer lovers. When we put our intention to harmonize our twin energy at the core of our being, our inner lover will become clear and manifest outwardly in the appropriate way.

~ Collette OMahony