Love clears any obstacles on its path to freedom. Any blocks that prevent you feeling love shall have to surface into consciousness. Any unconscious beliefs that oppose the new reality you are attracting shall begin to present themselves in your awareness.

Issues of self esteem and old limiting thought patterns arise so that they can be felt and cleared to make way for the new reality. Be aware of any avoidance habits that prevent you releasing fear.
Sometimes at this point it can seem that things are actually getting worse rather than getting better. It is easy to fall back into old mind patterns and allow unconscious thoughts and fears to create your reality. Instead of collapsing into the old thought patterns, use an affirmation to help you through it;

Everything is in Divine and perfect order now.

Remember that what you are currently experiencing is only temporary because life is always changing. Confusion comes about when you are moving between the old way of being and the new reality you are attracting into your life experience. Stay focused on the new reality through intention and affirmations.
When fearful thoughts arise, it is your inner guidance revealing to you any beliefs that are blocking the emergence of your new reality. It is in effect saying to you to clear away the old to make way for the new. Be completely open and watch the fears as they arise into the conscious mind. Attach no judgement, guilt or shame to them. Allow the old beliefs to dissolve just by being present to them.

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One way to see deep rooted fears in the mind is to become aware of your reaction to those around you. Look and see what triggers cause you to feel angry or annoyed. What are the behaviour patterns in others that cause you to pull back from a person or try to avoid them completely? It is the traits we recoil from in others that hold the key to unconscious beliefs and fears.
It is also helpful to make a list of the things you like about yourself. If you are at low ebb, you may find it difficult to find anything positive about yourself. Make a list of qualities you wish to extend into the world and then set your intention to bring forth these qualities for everyone to see and enjoy.
The truth is you have all of these positive traits in you already but when you feel bad about yourself, particularly after a relationship breaks down; it can be difficult to appreciate the truly wonderful person that you are.
The need for something or someone to make you complete is at the root of suffering. You can be so fixated on getting what you think you need, you lose your connection to your Higher Self. The mental noise drags you along by setting out a list of rules and plans for your future. You get caught up in the drama of life, of what might or might not happen. Life becomes a stream of continuous questions and mind made scenarios of future probabilities.
Even when you reach a goal or receive something that you want, the mental noise soon replaces the satisfaction with the need for more; or the fear of losing what you have. The enjoyment is quickly replaced by the need for something else you think you need to be happy.
To end this destructive cycle it is very important to find a way to connect to your Higher Self. The intention to overcome this way of thinking is necessary to sever the destructive pattern caused by fear and desire.
Fear and desire are movements of the self centred ego and keep you locked into the illusory belief of being happy in the future. Like all ingrained beliefs, it takes constant practise to break its hold on the psyche. Keep repeating your intention to change and grow as a person.

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